The Marriage Fitness Stop Divorce Audio Learning System is a ground-breaking step-by-step relationship-changing program that teaches you to neutralize your problems and implement a program of positive relationship habits that change the way you and your spouse relate. Those changes in turn “stop the bleeding” in your relationship and restore the connection you and your spouse once had. And the best news is—you don’t have to talk about the past, hash out your problems, or practice communication strategies. This is not marriage counseling; it’s Marriage Fitness!
Thank you for the good advice you gave me when my marriage was heading to the rocks. If it was not for you I would be divorced, something I couldn’t bear. Me and my wife are finally at peace. This is all because of your support.
My wife and I were deeply in love. I remember staying up all night talking, surprising each other with thoughtful gifts, and speaking to each other in code words. You know the feeling of really being connected? That was us.
But then something happened that destroys most marriages. We had a son who died when he was one week old. And then we had twin daughters, who also died as newborns.
Your situation probably was not so tragic, but something happened. What was it? How did you lose each other? An affair? Neglect? Or maybe you can't put your finger on why things aren't right anymore. That's common too.
For us, after losing 3 children, everything felt different. Instead of talking all night, it was a chore to talk for a few minutes. Instead of using our code words, we used curse words. Our relationship consisted of screaming matches and silent treatments.
Somewhere deep in our heart though, like you, we knew we didn't want to lose each other. So we made a commitment to work on our marriage. Sometimes I tried and my wife didn't. Sometimes my wife tried and I didn't. Sometimes we tried together. We went through different stages of "trying."
What did we try? We tried the obligatory, "Honey, let me repeat what you said to make sure I understood you correctly." We applied conflict resolution strategies. My wife learned about Mars and I learned about Venus. We even went to counseling to wrestle with our problems. But guess what. Nothing changed. Nothing worked.
All the advice we got (books, counselors...whatever) asked us to confront our problems. But that just made us feel worse. And fight more.
As long as the usual methods weren't working, why not be dysfunctional? So we tried to convince each other. You tried that too, right? Obviously, that doesn't work.
Finally, we had a breakthrough. We decided to SET ASIDE OUR PROBLEMS. We didn't talk about them at all. We didn't bring them up even once. Instead, we put our energy into trying to connect. We used certain relationship techniques that transformed our marriage. Not only did we resolve our differences; we fell in love again! And we did it not by dealing with our problems (as serious as they were), but by establishing new relationship habits that brought positive energy to our marriage.
This is the solution to a marriage on the brink of divorce...
to "step away" from your problems and spend your time and energy building your relationship through positive actions. If you do this RIGHT, your problems will dissipate, the threat of divorce will go away, and the other people invading your marriage will become irrelevant. Slowly but surely you will feel close again.
Now you're probably wondering, "How do I stay away from the very problems that plague me? What healthy habits or relationship techniques can bring us closer together? And what if my spouse doesn't cooperate?"....................
Me and my husband were separated for 5 months and heading to divorce. Then I did Mr. Fertel's brilliant program…I wouldn't have been able to save my marriage without his help.
The MIRACLE STORIES go on and on, but the bottom line is this: if you're willing to learn new ways of relating to your spouse and if you're willing to apply what you learn to your situation, then the Marriage Fitness Stop Divorce Audio Learning System can work for you.
The Marriage Fitness Stop Divorce Audio Learning System includes over 5 1/2 hours of listening with step-by-step instructions on how to stop your divorce and restore your marriage, inspiring stories that’ll offer you hope and motivation, and special relationship practices that’ll turn your spouse around.
Now I want to CAUTION YOU about one thing and be totally upfront. The Marriage Fitness Stop Divorce Audio Learning System is NOT a quick fix program. I'm not going to promise that if you order today you'll be healed tomorrow (don't believe anyone who makes such a promise). It's going to take a couple of months to implement the program and get the results you're looking for . You'll see some results immediately (the program is instantly downloadable), but the full effect requires some time. But if you put forth the proper effort, I'll show you step-by-step how to transform your situation. It's not overnight, but the results will last you a lifetime.
After listening to the first CD, I was blown away, and things started to make sense. Without this program, I would have said and done all the wrong things. Today, our marriage is the best it's been.
Think about it. What’s the happy ending to your story? If you want that story to be written, then you’ve come to the right place. There are no accidents in life. There’s a saying…
“When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.”
You’re the student. I’m the teacher. Are you ready? I can help you. I guarantee it. But before I explain the guarantee, let me explain the fee.
But the Marriage Fitness Stop Divorce System is ONLY $69.95
Ordering is RISK FREE. In short, if you're not satisfied for any reason, just contact my office by phone, fax, or email anytime within 30 days of ordering, let me know you want a refund, and I'll refund you. I can't be any fairer than that. No questions asked. But I know it won't happen because this program works.
Consider what your marital mess is costing you. I don’t mean in dollars; I’m talking about the emotional pain, the sleepless nights, and the tension in your life. Your marriage right now, rather than being a source of joy, is destroying your quality of life. You have to do something about that…for yourself…and for your entire family.
You’ve probably heard the saying:
“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.”
If you keep doing the same things, you’ll have the same marriage. But if you want to change your situation, you need to learn new ways. You need to do things different. And if you don’t, you may look back one day on a marriage that spiraled out of control or ended and wonder how it could have been different if you had simply gotten the right guidance at the right time. Now’s the time.