Hi. I’m Mort Fertel, founder of The Marriage Fitness Online Boot Camp.
The Marriage Fitness Online Boot Camp is an alternative to marriage counseling and the most successful marriage crisis program in the world.
I have a very stubborn husband…I ran across Mort…he was just so good…it helped our marriage tremendously…my husband became very selfish and prideful…Mort helped him turn that around.
My wife and I were deeply in love. I remember staying up all night talking, surprising each other with thoughtful gifts, and speaking to each other in code words. You know the feeling of really being connected? That was us.
But then something happened that destroys most marriages. We had a son who died when he was one week old. And then we had twin daughters, who also died as newborns.
Your situation probably was not so tragic, but something happened. What was it? How did you lose each other? An affair? Neglect? Or maybe you can't put your finger on why things aren't right anymore. That's common too.
For us, after losing 3 children, everything felt different. Instead of talking all night, it was a chore to talk for a few minutes. Instead of using our code words, we used curse words. Our relationship consisted of screaming matches and silent treatments.
Somewhere deep in our heart though, like you, we knew we didn't want to lose each other. So we made a commitment to work on our marriage. Sometimes I tried and my wife didn't. Sometimes my wife tried and I didn't. Sometimes we tried together. We went through different stages of "trying."
What did we try? We tried the obligatory, "Honey, let me repeat what you said to make sure I understood you correctly." We applied conflict resolution strategies. My wife learned about Mars and I learned about Venus. We even went to counseling to wrestle with our problems. But guess what. Nothing changed. Nothing worked.
All the advice we got (books, counselors...whatever) asked us to confront our problems. But that just made us feel worse. And fight more.
As long as the usual methods weren't working, why not be dysfunctional? So we tried to convince each other. You tried that too, right? Obviously, that doesn't work.
Finally, we had a breakthrough. We decided to SET ASIDE OUR PROBLEMS. We didn't talk about them at all. We didn't bring them up even once. Instead, we put our energy into trying to connect. We used certain relationship techniques that transformed our marriage. Not only did we resolve our differences; we fell in love again! And we did it not by dealing with our problems (as serious as they were), but by establishing new relationship habits that brought positive energy to our marriage.
This is the solution to most marital situations
to "step away" from your problems and spend your time and energy building your relationship through positive actions. If you do this RIGHT, your problems will dissipate, the threat of divorce will go away, and the other people invading your marriage will become irrelevant. Slowly but surely you will feel close again.
It would have been nice to know all this years ago, right? Well, it’s NOT too late. In my experience, it’s never too late. I mean that. Never. And if you think it’s too late just read the user reviews on this site or Google “Mort Fertel” and read the stories online. You’ll see thousands of stories about people just like you, who went through this program and turned it all around.
Here’s one of those stories…
While it’s too personal for me to speak about publicly I will share that this program solved our problems both outside and inside of the bedroom. I did this program completely Lone Ranger style and my husband never did the program.
I want to CAUTION YOU about one thing and be totally upfront. This is NOT a quick fix program. I'm not going to promise that if you register today your marriage will be healed tomorrow (don't believe anyone who makes such a promise). I'll give you instant access to everything you need to begin the reconciliation process today, but it's going to take 7 weeks and real effort for you to climb your way out of this mess completely. But if you put in the time and effort, I'll show you step-by-step how to transform your marriage. It won't be overnight, but the results will last you a lifetime.
My husband was done and seeing someone else. We were separated for 6 months, planning to divorce. God led me to your program but my husband said no. I began on my own. Within a couple weeks he moved back home! Your program is phenomenal.
A sequential delivery of marriage-transforming insights and skills so relevant you’ll feel I designed them for YOUR marriage. You'll learn exactly what to do to turn your marriage around and how to apply the Marriage Fitness approach of relationship renewal to your situation. (These seminars take place on a TELEconference. You don't have to go anywhere. You just phone in. And there's no extra charge. If you're doing the program with your spouse, you can call-in from the same phone, or from 2 different locations.)
This is the most comprehensive marriage-crisis audio library in the world. Whatever your problem, the solution is here. Got a question? You’ll find the answer here too. There are 162 audio files searchable by topic. Just click, listen, and you’ll go from confused and frustrated to clear and calm. User feedback indicates that the most compelling and solution-oriented content is here. Many users listen to these audio files multiple times.
Listen in your car, at home, while you're traveling or exercising. Choose between CDs or instant digital online access. This audio series will answer every question you have about how to transform your marriage. And you'll get step-by-step instructions on how to turn your marriage around. This is the most comprehensive audio program (over 20 hours) on the topic of marriage renewal available anywhere in the world.
This is where the rubber meets the road...where you'll learn to put ideas into practice. Roll up your sleeves and dive into assessments, assignments, and "to-do" exercises. You'll be amazed at the results of your efforts based on these assignments. There's almost 200 pages of insights, practices, and journal entries that serve as the perfect companion to the 15 Part Audio Learning System. This workbook can be completed with or without your spouse (see "Lone Ranger Track" below). Choose hard copy or instant digital online access.
During a pre-scheduled hour (see schedule below) I'll conduct a live open-mic Q and A teleconference. You can call in with questions or just listen for answers. This is where YOU set the agenda and get to determine what issues get addressed and which circumstances get explored in depth. Here you'll get personal access to my counsel. (This is a TELEconference. You don't have to go anywhere. You just phone in. And there's no extra charge. If you're doing the program with your spouse, you can call-in from the same phone, or from 2 different locations.)
Five printings and thousands of copies sold. Endorsed by Dr. John Gray (Mars/Venus) and Dr. Stephen Covey (7 Habits) as well as literally hundreds of counselors, therapists, psychologists, psychiatrists, PhD's, social workers, relationship experts, authors, and, most importantly, readers who have renewed their marriage. You can choose between a personally autographed copy or an e-book available for instant download.
These assignments will help you LIVE what you learn. You'll be amazed at how much progress you'll make.
This schedule gives you a clear step-by-step path that will transport you to a renewed marriage. You'll have DAILY assignments to complete and weekly benchmarks to hit.
These assessments reveal the areas of your marriage that require special attention.
What if you miss a teleconference? No problem. All the teleconferences are recorded and you can listen to the recordings from your members-only website or download them to your Smartphone, iPad, or any listening device. This is also where you’ll find your Solutions Library (referred to above).
This special track of the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp™ is customized for people dealing with an uncooperative spouse who are doing the program ALONE. (see below for more information)
This track of the Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp™ is customized for couples doing the program TOGETHER. (see below for more information)
Is your spouse obstinate? Won't take your calls? Checked-out? Unwilling to get help? Having an affair? Moved out? Filed for divorce?
The Lone Ranger Track is designed for people dealing with an uncooperative spouse and who are doing the program ALONE. In most cases, the obstinate spouse is having an affair, moved out, filed for divorce, or all of the above.
If you take the right steps, you can draw your spouse back in and begin to restore your marriage.
It does NOT take 2 to tango. A marriage can be transformed by one spouse. In the Lone Ranger Track, you'll learn how to single-handedly improve your marital situation AND inspire your spouse to finally join you in the process of renewing your marriage. And when your spouse does come around, you can switch to the Duo Track at anytime for no additional cost.
I know you would rather do the program with your spouse and I know it's hard to try when your spouse is not. But the longer you wait before being proactive the worse your situation will get. It's NEVER too late. YOU can make the difference and get things going in the right direction. A bridge can be built from either side. Start building!
The Duo Track is designed for couples doing the program together.
(If you and your spouse are both participating in the program, you should register for the Duo Track regardless of your marital situation. If you're separated, you can still do the Duo Track, pay only one price, and call-in for the teleconferences from different phone lines.)
You should NOT pressure your spouse to do the program with you. Simply INVITE them to join you. If they say "no," then sign-up for the Lone Ranger Track. Once you're in the Lone Ranger Track, I'll teach you how to motivate your spouse to join you. You can switch to the Duo Track at anytime during the program for no additional cost.
Regardless of which track you choose, if you want to save your marriage...if you want to relieve your pain and bring love to your life . . . this is your chance! The Marriage Fitness Online Boot Camp is more effective AND less costly than counseling and significantly more comprehensive and personal than any self-help book, kit, or other online program. And, it's a completely private experience! Are you ready?
Ordering is RISK FREE. In short, if you're not satisfied for any reason, just return the materials to me in resalable condition received anytime within 30 days of ordering (if you ordered the digital download version this is not required; instead, just email me that you want a refund within 30 days of ordering) and I'll gladly refund your money. I can't be any fairer than that. No questions asked. But I know it won't happen because this program works and I'm going to be there for you every step of the way to make sure you succeed.
Think about it…what is this marital mess costing you? I don’t mean in dollars; I’m talking about the emotional pain, the sleepless nights, and the stress. Your marriage right now, rather than being a source of joy, is destroying your life. You have to do something.
“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.”
If you want to change your situation, you need to learn new ways. You need to do things different. If you don’t, you may look back one day on a marriage that spiraled out of control and wonder how it could have been different if you had the right guidance at the right time. This is the time. I’m your guide.
Your situation will not resolve itself. These situations never do.
Let's get to work.My husband told me he was not in love with me! I was so scared. Your program saved my marriage. My husband was really resistant. He made a major turnaround! We are connected like never before. Thank you for what you do. It really works and it creates miracles. What happened to me feels like one.
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My husband told me he was not in love with me! I was so scared. Your program saved my marriage. My husband was really resistant. He made a major turnaround! We are connected like never before. Thank you for what you do. It really works and it creates miracles. What happened to me feels like one.
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I am not sure I could have done it without you. I would have given up and believed that because he was with someone else we were done. Thank you. We are forever indebted.
My husband told me he was not in love with me! I was so scared. Your program saved my marriage. My husband was really resistant. He made a major turnaround! We are connected like never before. Thank you for what you do. It really works and it creates miracles. What happened to me feels like one.
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