The Marriage Fitness Plugged-In Program

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Tuesday, February 5

9-10:30PM E.T.

Monday, February 11

9-10:30PM E.T.

Monday, February 18

9-10:30PM E.T.

Thursday, February 21

9-10:00PM E.T.

Monday, February 25

9-10:30PM E.T.

Monday, March 4

9-10:30PM E.T.

Monday, March 11

9-10:30PM E.T.

Monday, March 18

9-10:30PM E.T.

1. What are the skills required for a successful reconciliation? 
2. Am I pushing my spouse away? 
3. How to deal with crazy work schedules in your marriage? 
4. Date night is impossible, what do I do? 
5. How do you deal with separation? 
6. How do you deal with emotional infidelity? 
7. Follow up question on the apology letter- disscusion. 
8. Do you feel betrayed? 
9. How do I mitigate the risk of getting hurt? 
10. How do I convince my spouse that I am changing? 
11. How do I deal with an obstinate spouse? 
12. How do I deal with the rejection? 
13. How do I know if my marriage is worth saving? 
14. How do I table my feelings, my hurt and my rage? 
15. How do we move past the past? 
16. How should I act toward my husband's mistress? 
17. How do you change your spouse's feelings? 
18. How do you have a talk charge with an obstinate spouse? 
19. How to rebuild trust? 
20. How do you resolve the unresolvable? 
21. How do you view financial considerations? 
22. Can I do touch charges? 
23. Why do I feel like a doormat? 
24. How do I keep away from the x mistress? 
25. I moved out of my house, when should I return home 2? 
26. I moved out of my house, when should I return home 3? 
27. I moved out of my house, when should I return home? 
28. I promised I would sign the papers, should I follow through? 
29. I was betrayed, what can I do to rebuild the trust in my marriage? 
30. Important for every situation. 
31. Important message about the Marriage Fitness Book 
32. How do you involve friends and family 2? 
33. How do you involve friends and family? 
34. Is there an overnight solution? 
35. How do you forgive? 
36. How do you handle the divorce process? 
37. How do I deal with my feelings? 
38. How do you make progress with an obstinate spouse? 
39. What do you do about a midlife crisis? 
40. What do I do when my mother in law is taking sides? 
41. What do I do when my spouse hurts my feelings? 
42. What do I do when my spouse is having an affair? 
43. What do I do when my spouse just does not want to be married? 
44. My spouse never picks up, should I keep calling? 
45. What should I do when my spouse wants me to sign divorce papers? 
46. What do I do when my spouse wants no physical affection? 
47. What do I do when my spouse wants to start talking about getting a divorce? 
48. My Wife said...how should I respond? 
49. What do you do when there is no more passion? 
50. What do you do when there are other people negative influence? 
51. I see progress, but my spouse is still proceeding with divorce 
52. The psychology of an adulterer 
53. Should I ask about their affair? 
54. Should I be intimate with my spouse? 
55. Should I give my spouse space 2? 
56. Should I give my spouse space? 
57. Should I go to my spouse's new house? 
58. Should I invite my spouse to come back home? 
59. Should I mandate counseling through the courts? 
60. Should I move out? 
61. Should I move to be closer to my spouse? 
62. Should I say I Love You to my spouse? 
63. Should I take off my wedding band? 
64. Should our child sleep at my spouse's other home? 
65. Should there be full disclosure after an affair? 
66. Should we continue to work together? 
67. Should we have sex? 
68. The importance of taking initiative 
69. The response I am getting is anger 
70. We had a wonderful marriage, what happened? 
71. What are my chances for success? 
72. What can I say to turn this situation around? 
73. What do I do about my spouse rejecting me? 
74. What do I do about negative influences? 
75. What do I do when my spouse is always so negative? 
76. What else should I be doing? 
77. What if I or my spouse feel unappreciated? 
78. What if my husband is a narcissist? 
79. When is it time to give up? 
80. When is it OK to speak about my situation? 
81. Why do affairs end? 
82. Will absence make the heart grow fonder? 
83. When work interferes with our relationship 
84. Workaholic 
85. How to Apologize Effectively 
86. Can I really change my behavior? 
87. Pressure vs Persistence, Courage vs Consideration 
88. How do I respond to an angry spouse? 
89. I don't see progress yet 
90. How do I deal with my depressed spouse? 
91. How do I know if my spouse will marry the person they are having an affair with? 
92. The difference between rage, anger, and resentment 
93. Why would I want to be married to this cheater? 
94. How to keep a healthy perspective 
95. Should I listen when my spouse talks about our situation 
96. We have nothing in common except our kids 
97. What are the 10 Fertel family values 
98. Should I tell my kids about the affair? 
99. My spouse says he's unsure about our future together 
100. Is there an obstacle too big to overcome? 
101. How do I handle his (her) secret phone? 
102. How do I understand his (her) mixed signals? 
103. How do I handle mediation regarding the children? 
104. What is they refuse to end their affair? 
105. What if there's no intimacy? 
106. What if saving my marriage risks my mental health 
107. We haven't touched in a long time. How do I break the ice? 
108. About full disclosure 
109. Should I ever confront the mistress (mister)? 
110. What do we say to family once we're back together? 
111. My husband moved out and isn't taking any responsibility 
112. I never loved you 
113. How do I handle threats from my spouse? 
114. How do I deal with my spouse wanting to live a double life? 
115. Using an "I Feel" Sentence Effectively 
116. How do I get my spouse to stop dwelling on the past? 
117. How do I handle my husband involving his mistress with our children? 
118. How do I handle my spouse's reaction to the changes I'm making? 
119. How do I initiate a conversation about intimacy with my spouse? 
120. How do I introduce sexual intimacy back into our marriage? 
121. How should I handle verbal attacks from my spouse? 
122. How to I handle conversations with my obstinate spouse? 
123. My husband was offered a career opportunity in another state. How do I proceed? 
124. My spouse and I react differently to problems 
125. My spouse is being influenced negatively 
126. Pressure vs Persistence 
127. Should I involve others in helping my marriage? 
128. What should I do once the divorce is finalized? 
129. Why shouldn't infidelity mean the end of a marriage? 
130. Should I comment to my spouse about them not wearing their wedding ring? 
131. Spouse wants to know why I didn't make changes sooner 
132. What if saving my marriage risks my mental health? 
133. Am I being too easygoing and agreeable with my spouse? 
134. Evaluating decisions based on outcomes 
135. How do you best deal with a spouse who has an addiction? 
136. How to properly express myself? 
137. How to get my spouse to reciprocate? 
138. How will I know if things are starting to turn around? 
139. My spouse and my social life 
140. My spouse broke my trust. How do I rebuild it? 
141. My spouse wants to sell our house. How do I respond? 
142. My spouse is undecided if she wants to separate or not 
143. How can I encourage my spouse to join the program? 
144. Does texting count as a talk charge? 
145. How can I end our separation quicker? 
146. How can I rebuild trust when my spouse is still working with the OTHER person? 
147. How to deal with full disclosure? 
148. Is it possible to finalize a divorce and then reconcile? 
149. My spouse asked me to stop doing the touch charges 
150. What do I do if my spouse does not agree with Mort's core values? 
151. What do I do when my spouse asks for space? 
152. What do I do if outside counseling advice conflicts with the program? 
153. Emotional Maturity: The Balance between Courage & Consideration 
154. How to Handle Money in Marriage 
155. How do I get my spouse to drop the other person? 
156. How do I get my spouse to treat me better? 
157. How do I turn off feelings for the other woman? 
158. I am having trouble with the talk charges and doing things for my spouse 
159. I feel like I am falling behind in the program 
160. My spouse keeps pushing me away, should I pursue? 
161. Should I pressure my spouse to join me in the program? 
162. Why is HE with HER? 